Why not give one of those a go and see what you think it even better, someone more like-minded who will experiment with you on the same level. I think friendly gatherings of kinky inclined people are called Munches as mentioned above.
I was waaaay out if my depth! As someone inexperienced in the BDSM scene I can't help but feel you'd be like a lamb to the slaughter opening yourself up to some of the people on there.
We have a vague interest in trying D/s for fun but I've seen things on there that I can never unsee and I'm pretty open minded.
Just wanted to add my tuppence here for what it's worth.ĭP and I are Trying New Things after a bit of a drought and I've recently joined fetlife to look at the forum posts for ideas etc on advice from old threads dug up on here (very much not for the dating side of the site - not our thing!) And I have to say that in your position I would avoid it like the fucking plague!